What happens if we spend our lives striving for goals that are not our own?
What happens if we change that?
Welcome to The Lovely Unbecoming.



I’m Bree.

Being human can be a complex, disorienting experience, and despite all of our plans, sometimes we get lost along the way. As a professional life guide, I am excited to help you design the roadmap to find purpose and beauty in your life. With my background in psychology, drama therapy, creative community building, and mindfulness, I will help you discover and cultivate lasting joy. My goal is to lead you toward a path of radical love, self-acceptance, and inspired action.



Enjoy the Process of Designing your Life

Maybe you’re tired of your career, or you want to engage more fully with your family, community, or job. Maybe you don’t know what you want to do after graduation. Or perhaps you don’t even know where to begin! No matter what, you need the skills to make confident, healthy choices. Together, we will discover what lights you up (and dismantle what you think is holding you back) so you can unleash and maximize your full potential.

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You are the main character

The Mother. The Student. The Victim. The Hero. The Clown. We all play roles in our everyday lives. Whether you are at work, at school, or with family and friends, you are taking on myriad inner characters every day. But sometimes, we feel mired in the roles that no longer serve us. We need to expand and deepen the roles we embody. Through creative and performance exercises, we can work together to examine your personal role repertoire  -- and help you to understand and utilize the roles that serve you now.

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Individual Sessions



Want to hear more about how we can work together to transform your life? Contact Bree today to schedule a session.


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People are saying...

I lost my job due to COVID, but working with Bree was key in helping me look beyond merely finding a new role, and instead thinking about the story I wanted my life to tell. Bree’s gentle approach, and her ability to listen, help you get to your personal truth. The time you spend with Bree might be the best gift you ever give yourself. I’ve found an exciting role on a new path, and I don’t think I would have been able to take that leap without Bree’s guidance and support.

Chris P.

The class helped me gain a new perspective on my relationship with my career.  Through our final mapping process, I was able to see how I had abandoned my core  touchstones in my previous career.  I now have a lens through which to view opportunities that arrive at my door, and [I have] the empowerment to let them fall aside when they don’t match my true needs.

Hannah E.

The [Life Mapping]  class helped me articulate some of my current needs and my future goals. It also strengthened my commitment to taking action towards those goals

Lindsay G.

I enjoyed the specific feedback and unique detailed observations Bree offered to each of us. They were helpful, enlightening, and affirming.

Allie K.


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